從回到香港上班後沒多久
天氣一直不太穩定
就開始感冒~~到現在還沒完全好~~

前兩年為了我家馬丁 我走到哪都帶著口罩
連進超市也是 所以也沒真正感冒
不過這次 我打算讓感冒好好發一發

結果發到不可收拾
到現在還沒完全好~~

看了幾次醫生 老是吃抗生素也不是辦法
所以開始看中醫
旺角的黃中醫師是之前就認識的
以前我常帶馬丁去推拿按摩
紓解一下他的肌肉
是個我很信任的醫師

黃醫師將我身上的筋絡開始解一解後
整個人就開始好一些了

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如果真有遺憾
是和你分開的那天
奔騰的淚水卻怎樣都停不下來
如果那一刻可以重來
我不哭
讓你知道 我可以很好~~

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馬汀走的前後 的確發生許多不愉快的事情~~

馬汀的原生家庭 在他的成長過程中
一直都沒有給予他太多的支持 
雖然家庭環境不算差
但是馬汀讀大學後 就開始自食其力過生活
自己利用寒暑假賺錢付學費和生活費
還可以存一筆錢到加拿大讀書
唯一可以稍微安慰的是
雖然爸媽總是把錢算計的很清楚
但是家裡還算是歡樂的家庭~~

但是馬汀是個孝順的好孩子
自結婚後 不管是剛開始的兩地奔波
到後來的正式定居
基本上我們在香港沒出差的周末
兩天都會跟兩老一直在一起
早上我們會帶兩老去公園曬太陽
中午一起吃飯 晚上如果印傭放假 也是我煮飯~~

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今天是PAISAN的生日
今年也是PAISAN第一次當媽咪~~

認識PAISAN應該超過二十五年了
因為她是我小學二年級的同學
再加上又是我國中三年的同學
當身邊的朋友來來去去
PAISAN是少數總是陪伴著我的朋友

過去一年
當PAISAN在忙著懷孕的時候
我在忙著照顧馬汀
以前PAISAN總是三不五時的跑來香港看我
又住在我家
從台北到香港 每次我們都白天逛街
晚上又一件件把戰利品拿出來把玩一番
每次可以跟他一起逛街 我都覺得很幸福
但是過去一年多 我們沒有機會碰面過

那天早上 我打電話PAISAN

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我的心肝
我相信你今天收到大家給你的玫瑰花
又再次感受到大家對你的愛 ~
真的 每個人想到你的笑容都會微笑 ~
想到你是這樣好的一個人 我真的覺得很驕傲 ~
爺爺說你是個個性溫和的好兒子 ~
Ada 說 原來你在墨西哥提供給她的保濟丸真的可以治好他的喉嚨痛,是我今天聽到最可愛的故事之一 ~
Andy 說下次見到你還要找你喝酒哩 ~
還有 Nakamura - san 說以後還要跟你在一起 ~
Helen 說我是她的女兒 她會好好照顧我啦 ~
還有還有 今天多虧了 Jacky , Cindy , Carmen , Helen的幫忙和陪伴著我~
我的心肝 ~ 雖然你的一生短暫 但是比起很多人 已經是精采很多
既然你已經完滿的走完這一遭 就先到好地方去享福吧 ~
你早已深深的在我的心裡 每次想到你 我都會感到溫暖與幸福 我都會微笑 ~


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Martin was a great trainer and good friend. He always understood the bigger picture and cared about people. I will miss his guiding hand in training and training development. He was always quick to respond to the real need, to see beyond what was said to what was needed. The hole I feel in our family is large. I miss him.

Miss. Kochanski from Seattle , USA

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As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough for being friends with us over the past few years
For all the times that we spent together.
Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our gratitude for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.

Missed by David & Pat from Hong Kong

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Your smile and enthusiasm was infectious and you had the ability to be a friend of everyone who knew you.

I will never forget our dive trip in Guam, or the fun we had with Phil in Myanmar.

Martin, you will be missed as a friend, colleague and of course as a wonderful person. The world has lost one of its gems.

Rest in Peace.

Your friend,

Mr. Page from Australia

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The first time I met you was, … on April 2002 in a conference meeting at Paris.
It has been just 8 years from the day, but I feel it’s more than 10 years being with you, because...
these days were very active and hard days to beat many difficulties around us.
I know, … you, I, and our folks were trying everything to be better during all the days.
We had not only severe issues in the period but also joys, like… one day you sent me the couple picture with Wendy-san
with your great pleasure and big boast, I remember. You were also a tour leader always at Seattle in USA.
Very good memories. That’s because I really feel strongly missing you now.
I wanted you to recover somehow. After your removing the drain, I wanted to guide you for Hot-SPA with cherry-blossoms season in Japan.
When I read the mail from your wife, I fell into be sad.
But, …as you told me,… you were being supported by your wonderful family, and I felt it’s kept until going to heaven,
so that... you were truly serene at the time.
I think you had a noble life.
We will keep you in our memory and I’m trying to be close to your gentle behavior.
If I were born again in future, let’s be together again.

Sincerely,
Mr. Nakamura from Tokyo , Japan

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Martin was one of the first people I met when I moved to Hong Hong in 1998, There were only a few of us in HK and it seemed to me that we were all very close. Martin, Steve and Larissa and I would often travel to Singapore, Beijing, Seoul or Tapiei for training courses and meetings. I recall that it was on one of these trips, when we were in the Hooters restaurant, of all places, in Tapiei that it became obvious that Martin and Wendy were developing a relationship. That was fantastic news for all of us.
I remember us all going for Dim Sum lunches and Martin would try to teach me how to recognize the Chinese words for chicken feet on the menu! Sorry Martin, despite your excellent efforts, I could never untangle those Chinese symbols!
Martin was a gentle and friendly person who never had a bad word for anyone, and made life better for those of us who knew him and who worked with him. He seemed to have achieved love, peace, and happiness with Wendy and so it is a great tragedy that I have to offer these words in memorial to a wonderful young person like Martin Au Yeung

~~ Mr. Ramm from Australia

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I was very sad when I heard of Martin’s passing. I had the opportunity to meet Martin many years ago when we were both supporting the Ultrasound operations. We exchanged many emails, spoke on the phone many times but best of all we were able to meet face to face on many occasions. It was always a pleasure to know Martin would be coming to Bothell. No matter how busy his agenda, he always made time to come visit with me as well as my team. Every time I would see Martin I would see a warm, friendly and genuine smile. It was always a true pleasure to see him. Professionally, there are not many people that can compare. He had tremendous knowledge and understanding of the business. He was well respected and admired. He could always be counted on and would always do his best to help you. Personally and professionally, many of us feel the loss of a dear friend and colleague. Martin will be greatly missed.

It is with a heavy heart that I say goodbye to my friend Martin.

Allen from Seattle , USA

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Dear Martin,

We met first time in January 2001 in Hong Kong. You were the Asia Pacific Service Manager .As a business manager preceded us in joining XXX , you have warmly welcomed us, HSG people, with great hospitalities.I never forget your friendly and gentle smiles from the very first day we met. You invited us to the office in Quarry Bay introducing us to your team with your natural and caring signs and very warm gestures to anybody.

Dear Martin,
Since then, I have learnt a lot from you about Ultrasound, Taiwan and China businesses. We’ve been working together in a same function for a number of years. You are a great partner in business and great friend beyond business. I don't recall a single case we had a problem in working together.You always take care of your peers and friends first at any situation with the natural and comforting similes. And your smiles were even more gentle when you’re with Wendy.

Dear Martin,
Thank you so much for the hundreds of good things you did it for me, my family and my friends. You are around many of my precious memories in Hong Kong.


The pleasant chat and your gentle smiling face when you and Wendy visited us in Tokyo is an enduring image in my mind.

Dear Martin,
Hard to accept that you went first, but your smile remains in my heart until I would see you there.

May you rest in peace.

Sincirely,
Ken from, Japan

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我的好兄弟,你就这样仓促地走了。这一噩耗突然得让我无法相信!2010年2月4日凌晨3时34分,竟是我们两世隔绝的一刻。
从这时起,我失去了一位真诚的朋友!
从这时起,大陆的同仁失去了一位好老师!
回忆13年前,我们初次相识在北京。那时你给我做培训,你的认真和耐心感动了我;
回忆7年来,我们在一起工作的日日夜夜。有多少深夜打给你的求助电话!你的热情感动了每一位大陆同事;
回忆两年前,我们一起出差在国外。你开车带着我奔驰在高速公路上;
会议无数个夜晚,工作之余我们围坐在餐桌旁愉快地谈笑。
你的音容笑貌依然浮现在我的眼前。这一切,怎能让我相信你我现已身处两世,再也无法相见!
你英年早逝,而我却经受着兄弟离别的痛苦!
Martin, 我的好兄弟,愿你在天堂平安!

你的朋友
( 北京同事 )

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這幾天心情有點焦慮
或許是馬汀的四十九天要到了
感覺上每做一次儀式
我的馬汀就離我更遠一點
感覺有點複雜
我一心一意希望他已經抵達西方淨土
卻仍然感到捨不得~

半夜更常醒來
然後很難入睡
想著以前的種種
還是會掉眼淚

一早起來 洗掉臉上的淚痕
裝扮好自己 又要上班去~

上星期才一上班就很忙
很多客戶都堆著沒有處理
很多客戶都說不急 可以等到我回來
無薪假不知道是怎麼休的?

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家裡的寬頻網路終於到期了
之前馬汀和我可是期待很久哩

這兩年都是使用 i-cable的
用起來真的很不順利 
但是想到已經簽約了 
就忍耐點
好不容易上次等到可以終止合約了
這家網路公司竟然回答我們
"要兩個月前通知 不然就當做自動續約"!!
當時 我和馬汀都愣住了~ 哇咧 ~
只好繼續忍耐

之前馬汀交代我 要換就換smartone的
優點有~
不需要安裝 只要將寬頻接駁器插上電
用網路線裝上電腦
打開網頁即可以使用 可同時使用四台桌上型電腦

要使用無線網路 只要在網頁上

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昨晚收到台北公司同事的留言
說已經幫我把馬汀離開的事情告訴我以前在醫院培訓時的周主任
也就是我當時的老闆~
我的心往下一沉

想直覺跟她說" 有些話可不可以留給我自己說? "

我在醫院時的老闆 一直到現在都是我心目中理想的醫師典範
數十年如一日
周主任會親自把做好治療的病人 退出門外 親自安撫病人
握著病人的手 解釋治療的細節
再強調一次 數十年如一日
他的耐心與醫術真是無人能及

在馬汀生病之後
除了我主動寫信詢問有關馬汀的病情
主任也會主動寫信關心我們的近況
難得到香港開會
他也要見見我們 和我們吃頓飯

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香港家人們預定在這個星期六
在灣仔的飯店裡租個會議室
為馬汀舉辦小型的追思會

這一陣子 除了公司 除了需要處理的事
除了想念 我也在忙這件事情

還好有HELEN和JACKY
真的幫了我許多的忙
還有公司的兩位秘書 承擔了一些額外的工作
馬汀是個好人 所以才這麼多人願意幫忙我~~

我們希望大家來飯店的時候
只是好好的跟馬汀說再見
不需要太嚴肅的環境
不需要哭哭啼啼
不需要大大的花圈

希望大家帶著一顆愛馬汀的心
我們會在小桌子上

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這是JACKY的愛心
JACKY是馬汀的表弟 自小就移民到加拿大
我認識他時 他還是個高中生
真的非常有自己想法又朝自己夢想努力的孩子
以後再來聊聊這個優秀又善解人意的年輕人

之前待在日本的時候
就虎視眈眈這本雜誌
這幾年 當慣了宅女 雜誌是生活上不可或缺的必備品
不能出門逛街 就可以翻翻雜誌
記得大學時已經開始閱讀日雜
第一次到日本旅遊時 更是帶了許多日雜回家
好像養成了習慣 每次去都會抱好幾本
當然有好贈品的日雜優先囉~

這本是Agnis b 新的目錄 日幣一千二日圓
JACKY幫我從日本帶回來的第一本 送給了嫂子
所以他又幫我帶了一本~

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心裡突然很多事情都湧上心頭
一直忘不了的是另一個故事

當我剛進入職場時
公司裡有一位產品經理
我想她當年大概是我這個年紀
瘦小的身材卻總是展現無比堅毅的個性

我們曾經是朝夕相處的同事
所以也可以談論許多私事

當年她也沒在交過男友
說起她的故事給我~
當時覺得震撼
覺得她真是全世界最可憐的女孩
但是八九年後
我卻成為另一個

我記得她念的是某私立大學的外文系
進入一個旅行社上班擔任翻譯

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